I have been playing way to much candy crush saga.
I thought my best friend Crystal was absolutely mad when she was always playing this game.
But in the attempt of trying to get my mind off things I downloaded it for android and I am obsessed.
If you need to stop obsessing over whether its a girl or a boy or the million other things to worry about when having a baby on the way, playing a game like solitaire is really effective of settling things down.
My baby daddy and I have a great relationship, we've been friends for over 10 years and have been dating for nearly 8. But no matter...
How well you know someone expect that everything will annoy you that he does that you DO NOT want to pass unto your unborn child.
For the past two days we've been fighting. Not your typically stupid couple fight more like long conversation that gets heated. Even to the point of saying maybe we shouldn't do this. Baby daddy's even if your feeling like that so is she.
So don't worry its normal!!! You've decided to be the best parents you can be!
but I will say DO NOT dwell on the things you two say to each other when the moments are heated.
and don't forget ladies to support your man as well. We do need more and the majority of support will go to you from everyone you know. I am lucky my parents are still together and are there for me matter what. Baby daddy not so lucky, he doesn't have either parent in the picture. So whether he has both parents or not remember that you needing him and this baby needing him is very stressful for a first time planned or unplanned pregnancy. So ask him how he is. You might be surprised what you hear and can use it as a way to connect.
I am a talker and need reassurance. He's a lets not talk about it I know what I need to do.
and for the past two days I've hated him. I even said it out loud to one of our room mates and they told him. I felt bad but still I felt so much resentment and anger towards hims. Even though I know I love him and I want to do this with him and couldn't shake the fact of how he farts and lifts his butt up on one side, or how sometimes forgets to brush his teeth. Every food he doesn't like to eat I wanted to hit him so hard in his face and say do you want our baby to be picky like you??!!?!?
Then I realized this all comes from fear...
WE are afraid, it is normal to be. The black widow spider after becoming pregnant eats the male.
You may feel like this, hopefully you won't but when you do remember don't be scared. Whatever will be will be, and the more flexible and happy you are the easier the waves will crash over you. you can plant your feet into the sand and breathe when you can and when you have hold your breath keep your head up and clear because if you re flailing around you wont be able to see through the bubbles and you can become lost.
Remember your creating life inside your belly!
You are the scientist, You are the creator, use your energy for positivity.
I know I feel sick and tired and hungry all the time and that's exhausting.
Think about your anchor in the sand what it looks like who is apart of it.
picture the ocean swelling and receding. You re exactly where you should be.
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